clothes dat we wear.

went for service 2day. its really funny how despite da fact dat i go dere to worship n pray wud end up criticizin sum1 dere. wat m tryin to say is dat dere was dis girl who came to da service wearin a skimpy dress. her bra strap cud b seen n wasnt lukin decent. i dnt mean 2 degrade her or dat sort bt i tink dat dere is a dress code for every occasion like goin 4 a party, college, church,etc(also da place where we go). i wnt imply dat its bcos of wat we wear dat most north indians tease us or haf bad impression of us cos evn if we wear decent clothes dey wud still do it. i do gt really mad if da rickshaw pullers or street romeos or 4 dat fact unclejis stare at us n all i can do is either screw up my face or ignore it.
its kinda unfair dat doh girls(not n.e.) wear skimpy clothes dey r nt conceived of in a manner dat wud ve, had it been worn by n.e. girls.dats lik sad. mayb m wrong here bt partly m true! also mayb 1 of da reason dey haf bad impression is dat we dnt try 2 mingle wid da people out here. we r wid our own people so we r quite ignorant of each other's culture n their ways. one of my north indian fren had a different impression of us n dat her seniors told her 2 stay away frm n.e. people. later afta we bcame frens she had shed all da stereotyped attitudes 2wards us. i had shed mine too bout dem. but ya we do haf lotsa differences. i tink one of da main prob is lack of xposure.i guess! i tink dat if we accept every culture as dey r n nt stereotype people it'l be a big step 2wards understandin both da sides n thus nt create problem or animosity 2wards each other.